You're smart, you're talented and you have a desire to go places in your career. The only obstacle is that you need a network of professionals to really 'kick start' things for you, but you don't know how to best go about making these connections.
That's where a Party comes in handy. Parties are great for networking and making those connections that could lead to something big for you.
However, you don't want to go to just any party. You need to get invited to parties that afford you opportunities to meet large numbers of people who have diverse backgrounds and are in businesses that are related to your career aspirations.
Next, do your homework. You want to know what types of people are attending the party. Since Managers tend to hire people they and their colleagues know, it will be important to know who the Managers are, at the party. If you are attending a party for a Professional organization, look up the names of the Board of Directors, because these are people who have business contacts that could possibly be of benefit to you.
Also, ensure that you know the names of the hosts of the party. These people know all of their guests and can provide you with important introductions.
Make a good impression! Arrive early. It's easier to get to know people when there aren't too many competing for the same person's attention. It's also easier to get noticed in a small group than in a large one.
Pay attention to details. What you are wearing should be in-tune with the rest of the group. Don't arrive looking like you're ready for a night on the town; there are many beauty rules to help ace your personal style. The opposite is true. Don't dress casually and look like this is your family's Christmas party complete with Christmas sweater, when the room is full of people dressed in black tie.
Make a connection. Striking up a conversation with strangers is difficult so ask your hosts to introduce you to people that you want to meet. Alternatively, if your hosts cannot help you then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to the other guests. You can do this in lineups to the bar and the buffet, leveraging the opportunities these situations present and turning them to your advantage. Say something like: "How do you know the hosts?" or "How long have you been a member of this organization?"
Make the connection matter. Remember your business cards and exchange them with people you want to develop a connection with. If you meet someone you want to speak more with, ask if they would like to continue the conversation over coffee sometime. If that doesn't seem appropriate, then follow up by answering some type of question that person had. For instance, if they told you that they were planning a trip to Miami and you recently went there, send an email with some restaurant recommendations or tour ideas.
Have fun! The effort you put in isn't going to payoff overnight. You have to think long term. So enjoy the parties and before long, you'll be the connection someone else is seeking.
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